By: Abu Hudhayfah, Lc.
A Muslim women feel that the hijab to be a part of his body and into the cover itself, means his embarrassment, a sign of honor, the way to reach God's love for him, as well as his ladder to heaven.
When a Muslim hijab, then in essence he was trying to fulfill one of the commandments of God and His Messenger. Allah Ta'ala says;
وما كان لمؤمن ولا مؤمنة إذا قضى الله ورسوله أمرا أن يكون لهم الخيرة من أمرهم ومن يعص الله ورسوله فقد ضل ضلالا مبينا
"And it is not fitting for a believing man and not (also) for women who are believers, when Allah and His Messenger has determined a statute, will be there for their choice (other) about their affairs. And whoever disobeys Allah and His Messenger, then indeed it was he had gone astray, lost the real thing. " (Al-Ahzab [33]: 36).
In addition, the willingness of a Muslim woman to cover his private parts with hijab syar'i is proof of his faith. And, there are many other lessons to be learned by a Muslim when he veiled in accordance with the guidance syar'i.
As parents, we feel happy when we saw that women must veil.Because, despite what, parents will be asked prihal answer their children's education, and one of them is the issue of this veil.Therefore, that children do not feel heavy to wear hijab in syar'i when he stepped on maturity age, the need for parents' efforts to get children covered early on. Because, as this method proved very effective in educating children covered. Of course, the methods to get children covered is very stressed to pay attention to the development of the child's age.
Parents tasks
Parents will be asked about their children's education. The Prophet sal-Allaahu 'Alaihi Wasallam (صلى الله عليه و سلم) said:
ألا كلكم راع وكلكم مسئول عن رعيته
"Remember, each of you are leaders, and every one of you will be asked about the lead." (Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)
This is the general context. As for the man who serves as a leader, such as husbands, fathers, and brothers, if they are not ordered and encouraged his wife, daughter, or sister to wear hijab, they will be dayyuts (ie people do not have jealousy for the honor of women dependents). Meanwhile, a dayyuts threatened by
Prophet sal-Allaahu 'Alaihi Wasallam (صلى الله عليه و سلم) will not enter heaven.On the other hand, Islam ordered that the children are trained to worship before the age of maturity. Praying, for example, is the worship fard ayn for every Muslim and Muslimah. However, the Prophet sal-Allaahu 'Alaihi Wasallam (صلى الله عليه و سلم) tells us to train our children to do it since she was seven years old. And, we are allowed to hit them when I was ten years old. That was done before they reach the age of maturity.
Prophet sal-Allaahu 'Alaihi Wasallam (صلى الله عليه و سلم) specializes in the worship prayer because prayer is the pillar of religion. While the hijab is like prayer, is obligatory for every Muslim with a clear command from Allah and His Messenger, as described earlier.
Familiarize Tips Sendari headscarf Small Children
The first to be dipahamkan to familiarize their children when the veil is the veil is one of the commandments of God and His Messenger. Word of God, "Say to the believing women, 'Let them gaze, and maintains his cock, and they do not reveal her jewelry, except for the (usual) looks of it'." (An-Nur [24]: 31)
The second, pahamkan the child that was tantamount veiled obey Allah and His Messenger that he had fulfilled one of the commandments of Allah Ta'ala. And, God has said, "And it is not worth the men who are believers and not (also) for a believing woman, when Allah and His Messenger has determined a statute, will be there for their choice (other) about their affairs. "(Al-Ahzab [33]: 36).
Thirdly, to instill in the child that the veil is a testament to the faith of a Muslim. Allah SAW did not steer the conversation about the hijab except to women mukminah. He said, "Say to the believing women." He also said, "And the wives of the believers." Of course a woman would feel proud if keimananj still bears within himself.
Fourth, the child kepdada show that veiling can save the heart.Because, if the eye does not see anything, then the heart will not desire. From here, when the eyes do not see anything illegal, then the heart becomes more sacred. Free from any possibility of slander is more real because the hijab will break the desire of people in whose hearts is a disease. He said, "Son of Adam, verily We have sent down to clothing to cover auratmu and beautiful clothes to jewelry. Self-restraint and clothing that's the most good. "(Al-A'raf [7]: 26).
May we be given the willingness and ability to embed this veil sharia to our daughters and affirmed on it until his death. And Allaah musta'an. *
Author of "30 Inspiring Family Harmony"
source: http://www.hidayatullah.com/read/21007/06/02/2012/sudahkan-putrimu-berjilbab?.html
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